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My issue is THIS: Being that he’s now got himself a partner –especially one of ELEVEN YEARS– then why the HELL is he whining about how hard it is to date nowadays? What does HE know about the subject? In 1993, I lived with such a sense of inevitability that I would eventually contract the virus that I thought, “What does it matter?” (Because we always “played safe” I never contracted HIV.)Īfter he left me thirteen years ago, he landed his current partner in 2001 and they’ve been together since. To his credit, he told me that on the very night we met. To put it as succinctly as possible… he and I were together for five years and nine months before HE up and left me.ĭuring that time, I did EVERYTHING in my power to make that man happy (including quitting a job, leaving my home and moving 300+ miles across Texas), and during all that time I agreed to have three-ways and orgies and what-not because, CLEARLY, *I* was never enough for him. I received a link to this video from my “ex.” Finding potty-mouthed robots chatting about risky sex is exactly what makes a good editor, I always say. Kudos to Maureen McCarty of The New Gay for flagging this video for me. If you want to do something about new HIV infections among our gay brothers, here’s an easy task: send this video to every sexually active guy you know. It is exactly the kind of message I would have praised in my recent video conversation with HIV activist Sean Strub about HIV prevention campaigns. This funny, bawdy robot video says more about the state of gay male sexual risk than any of the horrid public health campaigns out there today. I explored a lot of this territory is one of my older videos, “ Mark’s R-Rated Sex Pig Blog.” In the video I discuss risks like barebacking and reenact my glory hole conversations (left), complete with a wall, a hole, and my friend Brian playing “the mouth.” And since the video was done before I got a handle on my meth addiction, you can see the ravages of addiction on my face, which is a lesson all its own. “I’d like to think that gay men could educate themselves enough to apply a safety standard to their conduct that doesn’t stigmatize anybody,” he goes on, perhaps a bit optimistically, “rather than hide behind a curtain of fear and blame. “Is there really something that they’d do with a stranger from Manhunt or Grindr that they wouldn’t do with someone who says he’s HIV+? It seems that what bothers them is knowing the truth.” “If (HIV negative) guys are out there having anonymous sex with strangers, they’re having plenty of contact with HIV+ guys.” he wrote me. I exchanged e-mails with the producer of the robot video, who prefers the anonymity of cyberspace but nevertheless has strong feelings about the curious mating habits of the gay male. And another thing: if you’re a sexually active “man about town” and your last HIV test was months ago, the results don’t really matter anymore. The responsibility not to get exposed to HIV (and hepatitis and other STD’s) is entirely yours.
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The lesson in all this, of course, is not to put your life into the hands of someone you’ve known for five minutes. These misguided folks are almost certainly already positive and don’t yet know it, leaving the door open for them to infect others. The joke, if there really is one, is on the bareback bottoms who “restrict” their hookups to men who claim they are negative. “If you’re clean, we’ll do it raw,” the gentleman in the adjoining booth would suggest, to which I would reply, “You’re going to take the word of a stranger you’re talking to through a three inch hole in the wall?” And I’ll go even further: in my crystal meth days, I had chats like these through glory holes. I have had conversations exactly like this one. What follows is a funny, pornographic (NSFW), painfully realistic “negotiation” in which stupidity rules the day. There’s just one problem: the horned up bareback bottom forgot to ask the top about his HIV status. The cute robots in this video are about to get down ‘n nasty after hooking up through a gay chat site.